Second, you can get and give pleasure orally in ways you never could through vaginal intercourse not that you can't do both! You sound like a wonderful couple. It's never been a problem before, but I'm a little more sensitive about it with doing it orally. Who is the most admirable woman in America? Just let your vagina do your vagina. Also, most men require stroking of the penis along with fellatio in order to reach a climax. This is a big mistake and in my opinion quite selfish. Hi Zayne Ok, lots going on in your comment there! Giving oral also helps raise her arousal level to meet your own, and ensures that she enjoys your encounter as much as you do.
I guess different moods and situations will call for different techniques! The woman receiving cunnilingus ideally lets her lover know what feels good either through words or sounds. I employed many of the tips you described long before the internet came around. We are happy that it turned out well for you and your husband. Kiss her lips, neck, breasts, the inside of her thighs. Of course, regardless of age or background, personal hygiene is important for any type of oral sex. If not, nothing ventured, nothing gained. I grew up in an era when people didn't talk about such things, so I'm just not familiar with some of the terms, especially fellatio and cunnilingus? Frankly, I don't know if any of my women friends have ever done it orally, either, since we really don't talk about things like that.
This may open up a dialogue on a variety of things you would like to try. If he just gave her one orgasm, chances are, she will enjoy a second, third or more. Yeah, vaginas smell, but in a good way. We've both enjoyed doing it that way sometimes immensely since then, especially since he has two bum knees and my back sometimes causes me pain when we get too crazy during intercourse. Our research and numerous other studies show that today a majority of sexually-active people enjoy oral sex. Men around the world are undoubtedly standing up and saluting you, even as they read this! Sometimes we go back and forth, from one thing to the other.
The reason I give for the the positions where the woman is on top is two fold. These articles discuss some of the taboos and misconceptions about sex, oral and otherwise, especially in relation to the women of your country. If you were Elin Woods, would you stay with Tiger? I can tell you that it puts a spring in my step, even after all years, just knowing that it's always available, in one form or another, and that she still likes to do it with this lucky old man. Alternatively, you can penetrate her with your fingers. The operative phrase is sexually active, which often depends upon a healthy lifestyle, a great attitude and a willing partner. Couples think that talking things out in the heat of the moment is unsexy, and it can be.
Some women become judgemental, to their discredit, and the relationship often suffers as a result. His tongue can do things and touch areas that intercourse does not allow. Consider it a small sacrifice. It's not harmful to me, is it, health-wise? I guess what I'm saying is how prevalent is oral sex today? On that nearly every one of our readers, male and female, seem to agree! There are flavored condoms if she doesn't like the taste of non-flavored ones, and there are edible lubricants, as well. Some women avoid receiving oral sex.
Fellatio has been increasingly recognized as a viable alternative to intercourse for older lovers, especially when physical difficulties make intercourse possible. A well-timed moan or groan, or pleasure-signalling phrase is often all a woman needs to fuel her enthusiasm - and it lets her know exactly when it's feeling good. And since one of the fears women sometimes express about oral sex comes from wondering if she will gag on the semen, it is important to note that since most older men tend to ejaculate less than in their younger days, that worry is nil, whethe r you choose to swallow or discreetly use a tissue after helping him feel like King Stud. So what we did was just took it slow, we both got in sync with each other and she wanted to guide me through it all. The breasts, inner thighs, and backs of the knees are all erogenous zones, so stroking them will make her feel great. Deep breaths and sultry murmurs at the right moment go a long way in making him feel like Superman with a tongue of steel and no kryptonite in sight! We enjoy it and can't help but wonder why we've never heard much about it discussed in books or television programs. My husband was nearly 15 years older than me.
Mitt Romney 50% Tim Pawlenty 16% Stephen Baldwin 15% Sarah Palin 11% Newt Gingrich 8% 25. This is especially true of younger men, but a growing number of older men are deciding to join the groomers, trimmers and smoothies. Never 4% Only in cases of rape or incest, or a threat to the life and health of the mother. And how do you suggest that I broach the subject with this very special 75-year-old man of my desire to experience oral sex with him, both giving and receiving? Also, bear in mind that giving oral sex and receiving your partner's ejaculate in your mouth doesn't have to come as a package deal for any lover who finds it distasteful. If we decide to try intercourse at some point, that's great. Using the tip, underside or blade of the tongue can also be very effective. What works for one might not work for another, and what worked last night might not work tonight.
Name Withheld from Columbus, Georgia: I've read your books and have ventured with my wife we're both 74 years old into oral sex, something we've never done before. Or perhaps it is simply more accepted and open. We still have an active love life. Oral sex is an essential part of great foreplay, but can be a full-on sexual experience in its own right. Every vagina is beautifully, wonderfully different.
Maybe it's self-consciousness, a prior negative experience, or just ambivalence. A little to the left, softer, or faster are all good, direct options. He's going to feel a lot better having made you orgasm than he will coming up for air. After my wife thrusts and then orgasms, she would tap me on the head as a signal she had orgasm I can get a little carried away. First and foremost, she is in control! Since the lovers often form the numerals 6 and 9, the name is fairly self explanatory. I've grown to like it, too, but I have a question that would embarrass the heck out of me if I was asking in personl Both he and I are usually careful about having sex, especially doing each other orally, unless we've taken a bath or shower.