So, the question now is this… Do you think that you sleeping with another woman is something that should stay in the realm of fantasy, or is it something that you think needs to be turned into a reality? Sometimes I get very excited about the idea, and then I just feel appalled that my husband would want me to have intercourse with another man. Just yesterday we both came to the realisation that we're both dissatisfied with sex and want more from each other. Of around a dozen partners, only 2 ever expressed a serious interest in watching me go at it with a third person. . I'd just be afraid that subconsciously she would think less of me after. I told my wife that I'll just be doing it for her which isn't completely untrue , but I have my own reasons as well.
I think what she's trying to say is that I will have sex differently afterwards and it will improve our sex life. Ironically there are hundreds of men who would love to have your problem. Do you know those career women who are ardent feminists and like to shout it to the world? I do not think that anyone has come up with a convincing explanation. But that is not something I would really recommend, because men are often bruised and sore for several days after taking that operation. A threesome is often kept in the fantasy bank and not acted on, due to the threat of losing the primary relationship with the spouse.
It's important that you know the real answer to that first. Are you willing to take that chance? Thankfully from each other, and not from others. Either way - keeping the doors of communication open is the key. If you decide this is a lifestyle you would like to pursue and would like some pointers of some of the dos and don'ts - particularly for safety - to get you started, feel free to contact me again. Any body facing the same questions george I actually went down that road my friends.
Hi; Straight to the point here. I just could not believe my ears. But if I took that 'op', would I be able to have sex with my girlfriend immediately afterwards? In my line of work people act on their fantasies all the time. When I was sleeping with men I didn't like anything else either but even though we have lots of pegging action there's something great about a real cock and mans assertiveness I miss. I was okay with this since she only wanted to be with other women. I was a little taken aback but told her that I would consider it. Have you ever fantasized about doing your mother-in-law? I think that on my next trip there, I might get a Miami doctor to do a vasectomy.
Some would agree that it is more intimate then the sex act itself. I obviously have trust issues, for which I'm seeing a shrink once a week. It sounds like your wife does not want intimacy from you just the physical, disconnected satisfaction. For example: She might have been masturbating to the idea of you having sex with another woman in front of her, or walking in on you giving it to another woman doggy style and then joining in herself. Like I said above, we haven't made any hard decisions yet, but I think I'm okay doing it. Don't do it if you're not comfortable with it.
Beware, starting over can be devastating if the community rejects your lifestyle. A Well, there have been cases in which men have had sexual intercourse within a few hours after doing a vasectomy. I do not think that you should go ahead with this 'little plan' - which could perhaps start the death of your marriage. As you can imagine our marriage has gone through a number of serious hurdles but yet we've always remained together where we know a lot of others would've given up. For all we know, and as far as I can tell as far as you know, she wants 100% exactly the same thing as you.
Communication is definitely our big issue. When she asks if you want to have sex with another woman, the correct answer is If this is what you really want, baby. With pegging you never have to worry about your stud going soft, and the toys can be much larger and even ridged or bulbed which feels incredible. If the version of this that you're comfortable with won't produce the thing that she's excited about, then it doesn't make sense to do it. Usually, it is difficult and awkward to add a plus one to your sexual relationship.
If she doesn't - perhaps you have bigger issues to deal with. Meanwhile my wife was fingering herself to another orgasm. I was thinking of just posting an ad on craigslist. Few days later, all three of us had some alcohol and my wife, along with her friend started making advances at me, and I finally had sex with them. Discussions that promote illegal activity will not be tolerated.
She's also like my husband in that she wants inordinate attention from the opposite sex. We've done pegging, which I really enjoy, but I don't think I'd want to actually have sex with her friend. She's been suggesting this for ages now, a few year already, but I really feel we can work through this without the need for sexual activity outside our marriage. Women vary greatly in their orgasms. If one of the two men had sex with you around the same day of ovulation, then the probability is that he is the baby's father.
I let him suck me while my wife watched. For a while, she enjoyed compersion, and thought it was a great idea to watch him having sex with other women. Like all things related to sex you should not do something you do not want. From there, she will naturally begin to fantasize more about what you can do to her, rather than what you can do to another woman. Imagine your better half stepping in while you are doing her mom! But why should some people fancy this idea of compersion? I always felt that I just could not have chosen a better partner than my wife! Don't make it that complicated.