My dad was a sadistic monster and there was never any doubt that I hated him as long as I could remember, but my mom was always good at playing the victim and the martyr and manipulating things so that I didn't even realize just how horrible she was until I was almost an adult. My mom is my sons only living grandemother left and his dad is turning him away from us all. Prayers for you sweetie, God bless! Our menses and the raging hormonal changes we experience set us free. Some of my friends feel sorry for me. All I can say is get the right help sooner than later. Don't be her victim or you may become her successor. We are on very rocky ground, especially since Christmas, and particularly since late Mother's Day.
I urge you to call the free domestic violence intervention organization hotline in your community. She slept in the same bed with him and continued to have sex with the man who slept with both her and her daughter. She's a lot happier lately and i suspect she may have antidepressants. Also, people tend to remember and dwell over all the negative things in their past whereas the positive things go un thought of and forgotten. I think you son got messed up from watching his father treat you so badly. I could be disrespectful which is never acceptable or spill my glass of milk accidentally.
Maintaining a healthy attitude is important, but I'd go a step farther and say that the thing you want to try to maintain is your ability to make wise decision. Stay the course, she will test you and increase some behaviors. I have gone many times to a counsellor looking to fix whatever it is that I have caused. My ex really doesn't seem to care that he has no contact with us. No matter how nice I am he still snaps at me about everything. It's like he's very spoiled, and wants to have his cake and eat it too---be independent while being dependent on us.
He does not deserve a huge amount. She always seeks to belittle me and mar my character. They had a quintessential marriage. I think the phenomenon you see is possibly because: your mom doesn't have to live with and care for her grandkids every day. She would take my money that I had earned saying she would pay me back, she never did. But i can not tell you how good your post made me feel and I must say u have gave me more strength.
My son has put me through a lot. And cutting is the only control you have stay away from drugs the razors she is not worth it. . Here's what I think you're doing. Will he tell me what he's mad about? Sometimes getting out of their lives emotionally and physically is the best way.
These are just some suggestions. I felt like she was always on my case about something and she felt like I had no respect for her. I am mad at her and feel guilty to be mad at her it was not her fault she had a hard childhood I find reasons to excuse her behavior and the conclusion is that its all my fault. I said one thing a bit too political and he yells viciously. Well, my mom launched into a crazy tirade out of the blue, saying things like, he never amounted to shit.
Perhaps your looks, your confidence, or your successes. Well, after all - that was what she did, wasn't it? My health has suffered from working so hard for so many years. I will have to let her slam doors and hate me on occasion. I don't care how much help I get I still hate men. So I say enough is enough I remove myself from this pain and go on with my life, and forget that I have a family and maybe someday my granddaughter will contact me. The person isn't dead - they're still walking around hurting you more. I'm afraid of having kids cause I dont want them to hate me as much as I hate her.
No amount of praise ever seems genuine or real. She used to pee everywhere when she was drunk. Being a mother does not make you a saint, it just makes some bitches think they are. I go to my doctor and he prescribes me some pills. All she ever did was bitch to anyone that would listen how bad of child I was, How bad was in school, How bad I am as dad, She told my wife one that she did not like me, why would anyone marry me.