Being savvy to the ways of men and how life works keeps you on an even keel and realistic about what you are doing. Young men just don't resonate with me. They either wish they were a young woman or a woman at one point in time or they think it will give them acceptance or boost their degraded sense of masculinity amongst a screwed up superficial society. Thank God for him because I could easily lose faith in the male gender if not for him. I like my space and give her the same. Video games, pizza, porn, are the staples, and going out and actually dating a woman who insists the guy have his own place -- too much trouble for some of these guys who'd rather just swipe left and right on Tinder for a few minutes before they get back to their video games. And most human behaviors can be traced to biology somehow.
Later it evolved to acquired property to be only passed or shared with blood of the offspring of the natural father of such. They know they won't have to combat the faltering self-image of so many younger women or have to constantly worry about saying anything that might make them jealous. I've seen the world, it's the same everywhere, it really is. He was lovely, but I realized that he was still a boy. I'm not sure what credentials you're referring to.
When you are young you are unsure of what you are capable of, but again, after 30+ years of being in the work force, reading, paying attention, and testing yourself, it's only natural that you understand yourself more on a deeper level and can comprehend what you can and cannot do. She also told us crazy stories about each other to try and tear us apart. Want to improve your relationship? That being said, I am willing to go out of my comfort zone to find a well-suited partner, but it would take an exceptional older man to entice me comfortably out of that zone. This is because there used to be a lot of barriers around this idea. There are no insecurities and the fear of not living up to expectations is transferred from the older woman to the younger guy. This was because some of them are usually not so open to the idea.
A handsome 60 yr old Marine with eyes like Clint Eastwood and a smile like Robert Redford and voice almost like Humfrey here's lookin at you kid. We think of men as the gender that has been brought up to be in control, have all the answers and know all the moves. An age difference of up to 10 years is generally not looked at askance by anyone who knows how old each partner is, but as that gap gets closer to 20, things start to look a bit more off balance. They always let the good women pass them by. So, for example, when you encounter a young woman in her early 20s who marries a man in his mid to late 40s, she likely does this because she needs someone to take care of her and she has abandonment anxiety and feels as though a much older man is less likely to leave her for another female. An older woman is more likely to have had many long-term relationships in her past, and so she is less likely to want to jump straight into another! If you sprain your ankle, you can use his cane.
In this day and age where women are getting college degrees in greater numbers than men, and women can earn real money, it doesn't make a whole lot of sense to hook up with an older man you don't like sexually, and have kids with him, and waste your whole life like that. There is sure to be some sadness. I conclude that if there is real love and commitment then why not? I could imagine making love to a soul mate 30 years older than me than, than the younger alternative wich becould based on less meaningful foundation. But I am sure that girls may know instinctively that old guys have a sexual imagination. I like to read, and cuddle, and play cards. Instead you find yourself playing a sick sad role of guardian and child without even noticing because you are missing out on the reason why you exist in the first place.
When a woman takes control, she is sexy! We have more to offer and we taste better than the girls who can't even relate to anything but themselves. The love is what should matter. It makes no sense to date somebody that is old enough to be your parent no matter what excuses they may try to justify at that age you are not physically able to have intimacy at an acceptable level and there is not much in common at all. Of course, this is just my experience. Men can do this—Larry King, Michael Douglas, President Trump—why can't a woman? Perhaps the women of today are too demanding that lead men to conclude that a life of video games, Tinder and online porn are more fulfilling than conventional relationships. Something about age gap relationships and immaturity wasn't it? In the course of my life I have very intersting topic conversation with the young ladies.
If he's young, they want him to potentially be loaded by insisting on someone who's ambitious and has energy, and is likely to earn money in the future to support her when she's pregnant, etc. He can focus on making her happy, rather than trying to guess what might make her happy. Older men and more traditional adults don't understand it. I've yet to meet a younger woman with an older man who wasn't loaded. And what they call these men is immature. Being a bit older and more experienced produces more confidence. Now the one man I love with all my heart is a lot older and we are getting married in December this year makes me the happiest woman in the world.
The teamwork is a sight to behold, as well. The biggest age gap was when I was 28 and he was 56. I give her great sex did I say I am in great shape 49. I think that people in general are close minded and don't understand the real reason why young women are attracted to older men. Thx, if only the guys I work with knew the reason of my loud laughter.