Personally, a penile penetration though more fulfilling is more taxing too. Original post by Anonymous hi well im a girl and i've had sex 3 times now with my partner i was a virgin before , and even on the 3rd time it still hurt and i bled. Naturally, one-night stands make for awkward good-byes. Play around with differnet things, some women are happy with just a clit teaser, others need the feeling of something inside to get off. I love when my boyfriend teases me with his fingers, sliding them down, and moving them inside in a steady, upbeat motion. I noticed that since I became more comfortable around my boyfriend after our little talk about how it wasnt enjoyable for me, even sex with a condom is great be amazing because my body is producing more natural lubricant as a result, which is a huge part in having good sex.
So it would be a fairly wise faking strategy to moan since men already tend to associate moaning with orgasm. Each of these options has its own merits and demerits that can help decision making when broken down. Another reason is because you are being completely dominated during sex and you can not escape the erotic feeling that it makes you moan very intensely and with out control the best sex ever in my opinion. This will indeed lessen in time, the more that you do it, but being very aroused and relaxed will enhance the experience for you. But, if the hymen's not broken, and is therefore torn during sex it probably will hurt a bit, regardless of how slow, how mentally prepared you are and how much lubrication is used.
Like if you are mounted on your lover and you get the perfect sensation it brings you to feel like moaning and it intensifies the already good sensation. From my very limited experience, condoms make it hurt more and I do not like them one bit. Evolution has made it where it really depends on the woman. If his abs are rubbing up against me on the outside, that is very important for me. Enjoying lovemaking also means taking the time to communicate — saying how you feel, what you want and don't want and what feels good.
The first entry reminds me a bit of the feeling when a masseuse finds exactly the right spot and presses down on it, except that feeling is radiating from inside you in all directions Or like a balloon expanding in your abdomen. Q: My boyfriend and have been talking about having sex. The reason it was enjoyable was because as a girl I was not completely comfortable. I mean it's nice being near my bf and all but it doesnt feel good to me, it hurts sometimes, but other than that it's boring to me. Most men do not realize that the clitoris is far more than just the glans - that it has roots that run down each side of her vulva - and she prefers my tongue to go in a circular motion up one side and down the other - with a bit of a flick at her glans. I kind of found sex pleasurable because my boyfriend enjoyed it, not because i did for the first few times. The ones who don't get pain are the lucky ones I suppose.
We used condoms for atleast 3 months i think and we had sex about 2-3 times and it was definitely enjoyable. So, I love being pleasured with sex more than getting fingered. Fantasizing can also help a woman come to orgasm. My man is so much about me that I want to please him as much as I can. I was scared to try again after that. I consider frequency after each time we do it, and put it on a per week scale.
We were putting too much pressure on it, I didn't feel anything. A lot of women have difficulty reaching orgasm from sex but do well alone. When it comes to masturbating, I've just tried to be very clear about her keeping it private. For some women it does and for some it doesn't. But is this just cinematic license, or is there really something to noisy sex? You can both put your whole bodies into it in a way that would never be possible with fingers. Online sale offers the very best shoes accessories and shoes.
The researchers found that many of the women did make noise, but not necessarily while they were having an orgasm. Original post by diamondsky99 Ok, after the hymen is broken etc. Unless you have a rare medical condition, the pain will soon stop. Eventually we stopped using condoms and she went onto the pill and she absolutely hates condoms. If I'm cursed enough to be the first one awake, I lie there trying to figure out how I got there by putting the previous night's exploits together like a puzzle. That is a huge turn on for me.
I have no idea who she's been with, and who her partners have been with. A reader recently emailed me with an interesting question: I wanted to help because I wonder what women think about right after sex. Speak to us if you have questions or concerns. You appear to comprehend a great deal about this topic. And most importantly, do I really want to do this? We use a small amount of lubricant to make penetration more comfortable and her prior orgasm also makes penetration much more comfortable and her vulva relaxed. It is true that physical intimacy can bring you closer — but it won't fix a problem in your relationship or make someone like you.
Here's how I handle it- I've explained that we have private parts, and we only do anything with those private parts in our private places. Good for understanding how to have an orgasm. There are also rare medical conditions that can make sex painful. B I just want to say that every woman has a different personality but the reasons for moaning are all of the above and maybe more. The only thing that made it worth my will was being close to my bf. In other words, is the action of pounding a girl by itself feel good to her? It can help you say, 'stop, go, yes, more please' - without sounding like a traffic cop. Curious about having sex for the first time? Actually, let me be frank, the sex sucked.
Obviously all this varies a lot. Shame we are in such a judgmental society or we could all be experimenting more Not generally as effective on all women, but I know on mine at the moment, at the very bottom of the opening is a spot that, if I tongue, is nearly as good as the clit for her I know though that this is a rare case, at least for me and that pulling out completely and pushing in again gets great attention from her. This blog really keeps me really up to date on the latest news happening around me and around the world. It's bad, but guys do like to gossip. So I'd think of skin-to-skin contact with someone's smoothest patch of skin, plus a feeling of pressure from the inside, like an inside-out massage of sorts. Once you know this, you can implement it into your love-making with your partner.