Girl likes guy — but not as much. You may want to distance yourself from the romantic feelings and just open your eyes to all the options that this friendship could bring to you. But don't think if she doesn't approach after this moment she's not interested. Suggested read: Here is a list of signs she just wants to be friends and does not regard you as anything more. Am I imagining those furtive glances? Guy does not recognize this for what it is, but continues on his quest, tries even harder, because maybe just maybe! And not only that, but if you intertwine your social circle with a woman you date, your lives start becoming almost dependent on each others.
As much as you enjoy her company, your goal from the beginning was to take some sort of complicated roundabout path to get into her pants. Then at some point in time, you decide that you want to become more than just friends with her and her response was less than enthusiastic? The ball is in now your court and the responsibility is passed on to you. Keen to chat about it when we're both sober. Disclaimer: We are not mind readers, and the article is just an attempt to figure out what all it means when an ex wants to get back. The gossip can get out of hand. Sounds to me like you need to learn some patience, among other things. Can you now see the double standard here? But obviously it was to tell me to just be friends because he needs to focus on school and work.
Yes, it stings to hear this but sometimes you might realize after a short period of time once the love glasses come off, that you just dodged a bullet. Nonetheless, you might be surprised to learn that she is afraid of moving on to another relationship. Unless you're going out to do them together, as in you're doing your own stuff too — which can be great fun — don't get involved in her necessities of life. This is a sign that he just wants to be friends. Either she will miss you and reciprocate your feelings, or she will not; but it will not be the end of the world.
By the way, I'm proceeding on the assumption that you're not happy with being friends with her — that, in fact, you were never interested in friendship alone. It just takes some careful thought. If she doesn't sit near you, or if she avoids eye contact and physical contact, it's likely her feelings are platonic only. We went out a few times after and I took him lunch a few times as well. She even setup another outting with you for lunch.
There can not be any of level of attraction in the friendship. You know, maybe it's financial issues, health issues, relationship issues, or just plain personal issues. Your Ex Girlfriend Wants to Maintain the Friendship It can mean any of the below. Whatever reason she gives, the bottom line is that she just wants to be friends and you have to accept that. But, again, it is mathematically possible. It takes a lot of courage to say that.
You can't force anything to happen in matters of the heart. That's what you really want, right? The same goes for her family: Avoid placing yourself in a position where you feel obligated to spend time with her family — if you'd rather not. This could happen at any time, too. Playing a friendship role when what you really want is a full-time, long-term relationship is like agreeing to be demoted and then having to act happy about it. Respect His Decision First you must thank him for being honest with you and not dragging you along. For example, what happens when you meet someone else? She discusses all kinds of things with you and makes sure you can acknowledge all your qualms and doubts to her about women and all other issues.
His mother sister, bestfriend all told me that he didnt appreciate me and that i deserved better. Besides, what good can come from investing your time, emotion and energy in a person who cannot, or will not, reciprocate? And by saying If you don't want all of me, you can't have any of me, she's going to respect you for standing up that way. Remember, there are lots of other people out there whom you will like and who will like you back. Keeping you within arm's reach is a good way of knowing where you are, what you're doing, and how long she has before you move on with your life. Take it easy, take your time, and as I always do, at times of confusion, I pray, and it does give me that sense of peace and then I decide. You see this bullshit story line in movies all the time.
Other Pitfalls of Being Friends With Your Ex As if all that weren't enough, the above reasons are only some of the problems you'll face by establishing a friendship with your exgirlfriend. We went inside and had an hour lunch together. Become a challenge- One of the major reasons why a lot of people end up in this friends zone is simply due to the fact that they are just too easy to get for the girl due to which she does not feel any sense of real attraction towards you. She may like spending time with you, enjoy talking to you and agree on most things, but that does not imply that she longs for anything more than friendship. Just ask her out and don't be afraid of rejection.
She wants to spend time with you. You try to convince yourself that friendship is a good idea. When a guy tells you something, you absolutely have to believe him. But what do women actually want? Remember that she left you, and it is your time to concentrate on other people and things instead of her. To me that simply meant she is not interested while I want her. There may be a variety of reasons for his actions.