Any advice, I would appreciate. After he got back I asked him if it was too early to say. I don't know, I clueless when people show me what they are thinking. Five months ago we started talking alot although we were good friends ever since we met but we started talking alot more, he was saying all the right things and acting the right way, he said he would treat me like an egg and treat me better than my asshole boyfriend was treating me. I know in my heart that my real guy is trap in strange man's body.
And that's something to be proud of. He never treat me as sweet and loving as before. Something else he has never introduced me to his family but just one of his family friend guy. Hello to excuses like sorry, I fell asleep, worked late, didn't want to wake you,. So you try to do anything you can to please him and show him how much you love him. If you need more than this, and he can't give that to you, that's not going to work in the long run. However, I don't now how much longer I can function in a relationship like this where I barely am able to see or speak to my boyfriend.
He wants it to work out, but I don't want him to feel chained to me, as if I'm a weight dragging him down. Then I tried talking to him about his being distant! Everyone knows that long distance relationships are hard work, but what does that mean, exactly? I wanted to respond to this, but didn't, as I figured this person obviously would rather blame me and I just gave him an easy way out I guess. If your the constantly calling, messaging, checking up type, then maybe give him that sauce, if your not! I told him its ok to help but not to the extent that me and my kids will sacrifice for it. Three and a half years of this. Try talking only a couple of times a week for a while so that you can recharge.
He might just be talking the talk but not walking the walk—maybe he says he loves you, but he's not really sure whether he really does or not. Held hands and shared the room. He's pulling back and seemingly less interested in both you and your relationship. Take your time getting to know each other. I felt empty and I relayed my feelings to him. So this guy comes to me for my number etc. You might need to say something like, 'I've felt you pulling away and wonder if I might be able to support you with what's going on.
He may be a great friend to them, but that says nothing of his ability to be a good partner. If he calls today, wait a day to two days before returning the call. There are power in your words, and the words you choose can deepen the connection you share so that he is more mindful of your feelings when he does need his space. Saying he is just over the bullshit. Women of course assume the worse every time.
There are a number of reasons that can cause a guy to act distant. I'm super comfortable with him and we always have a great time. Nothing you could have said or done while he was taking some time and space would have made him change his mind. It stamps its feet in your chest and your subconscious. So of course I'm in tears, confused and hurt and trying to figure out what he's doing, and what's going on, why it's all so sudden.
However, after work hours he did not text and when i finally did he was with his friends. It's been 24 hours and he has called me twice and sent me a text, I ignored him. When a man becomes distant, don't text him or call him or ask him what is wrong. I want to come home and just spend time with him, he gets multiple days off in a row, so when he does he wants to go out. That no matter what happens he won't let us break up, because pour relationship means top much to him and he never wants to be without me.
My boyfriend and I have been together 2 months and it has been perfect. I've been branded the 'Advice Queen' by most of my girlfriends and have been faced with this question a few times. For a romantic option, write an old-fashioned letter and put it in the mail! We went for a vacation in our home country and stayed at his sister house. Tonight we were suppose to hang out but he was supposedly sent to the the hospital due to chest pains? I think if any can give me advice on my relationship, you be it! He then told me about it and he said he will just spend a certain amount of money to fix it and hes ask me if its ok with me so when i heard how much is it, i said ok. Give him some time and space while you use that times to figure out who you are and what you're looking for from someone who loves you. Having him help you with something can make him feel needed.
I would ask yourself if being with him again - giving him a second chance - added something more to your life, or if it would be more stress, more second-guessing, more of what you don't want to experience again. Today we talked once or twice just to say hi, but nothing like the debates and discussions that we had before. Not an extra regular female with no personality and no say for herself. When together we talk almost about everything bif when he leaves he doesn't communicate or even say if he arrived at his place safely. We had been secretly crushing on each other until one day I confessed my feelings for him and soon we were on this magical journey together.
I don't know if you will be able to help me or not, but I have faith and hope that you can. When she came over, all she could say was He's being so distant lately—what am I doing wrong? So, I just wanted to say I can't wait to see you again. It's always going to be like that, because we depend on one another for support and honesty. I'm just not a priority or put first anymore but he always texts me to check in. Again, instead of dealing with the consequences, he chooses to run away. So what should you do instead? Either talk about it or buzz off! Bring it up, and let go of the outcome.