You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. Check out the for more clues on how to keep your man interested. You should not be paying for everything. No one should ever pressure you into sex. Women who make it too easy on a man immediately lose that mysterious component. It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are.
About 6 months in, he starts to pull away. This same girl was willingly homeless for 3 months. You are a goddess and you are brim-full of love to give; in fact, that's your problem right now: you have so much love to give and only this one half-interested man to give it to. Make Yourself Desireable Note that men are really jealous creature and they will never appreciate their girl talking to some other guy. If he sees that you don't start arguments over petty issues, he'll be more likely to listen when you have a problem you want to talk about.
You soon start to question everything you do and you feel like nothing you do for him is going to keep his interest. Talk about problems as they come up. As human beings, though we may pretend to be humble, deep down, we are all narcissists and self-obsessed. Don't bend over backward for him. Make him feel like a man and he will stay your man. Respect Him And His Ego If you want to keep a man interested and happy, you must know how to give him respect and satisfy his ego.
When a man talks about one of his deep interests — you can practically see him light up. You must believe in your ability to. If he doesn't like it, move on to someone who will. Think of yourself as a colander and him as spaghetti — you don't want him to slide through the bottom into the sink! And you can have a love life worthy of a goddess. Refrain from being too nice all the time By being extra-nice and obedient, to your husband, you may feel good about yourself at the end of the day, but the fact is, with an over-dose of nicety, you not only stand the risk of losing the power of seduction, you may even end up getting under his skin.
He's happy just to be with her. So do women, but society tells us that men need space. Never Let Him Doubt Your Love For Him Have fun time with your other guy friends, but never at the cost of his insecurity. For example, you may write what put you in low spirits on a sheet of paper, and then tear it apart. Dating isn't about education, it is about connecting with a man on a different level.
This is because most people, men and women, feel vaguely guilty about it for some reason. There's definitely more to say on how to keep a guy interested, share your tips with us in the comment section below! When you do that, you both feel comfortable and relaxed, which allows intimacy and trust to grow. A day later she sent me a letter, and right there, glued to the envelope, were cutouts from a magazine of a guy's sneaker and a woman's stiletto. These are all awesome interests. Let her make you dinner occasionally. You let her pay if she offers, or you subtly prompt her to pay if she doesn't offer. Never allow him to take you for granted, keep him under check all the time or else.
One day he stood behind a client I had met with until she left 10 minutes later he was still standing in my office staring at me. The nugget of good advice in this is to have your own life, like I talked about earlier. Those are the best and worst pieces of advice when it comes to keeping a man. That's how to keep a guy interested. Even if he makes a blunder, instead of making faces and rolling your eyes, wish him better luck next time. Be Optimistic I know this sounds trite, but nobody wants to be around a sour puss all the time.
I quietly agonized over how I should reply back to a man in a text message, or how long I should wait to call him. You having interests, of any kind, means that you find yourself and your likes cool and worth your time. Some women have tendency to attract a man and then drop everything that made her attractive to him in the first place. Spare sometime to watch good recipes and cook his favorite meal. Moreover, pure goodness is rarely alluring.
Bear in mind though, not to exaggerate your excitement on bed. One of the things that attracts us to other human beings is their confidence in themselves. So you might as well have fun, too. Make that woman is sexy part of your vocabulary. I get to gaze up at a beautiful woman, and my hands and mouth can roam all over the place. Flirt with him, tease him, lock your eyes with him do all these stuff, but without making it feel obvious and at times avoid him totally to keep him confused which will keep the mystery alive.